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	<title>Just Gabe &#187; embarrassing</title>
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		<title>Do Tell</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 19:31:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know that Twitter is a service we can all use as we wish, but this tweet violated so many of my own private rules I had to look further.  Looking at this person's profile there was sadly (and predictably) a long list of the same requests to other "so and so's". ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://www.justgabe.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/embarrass.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1846" title="Don't ask don't tell!!" src="http://www.justgabe.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/embarrass.jpg" alt="" width="116" height="171" /></a>I spotted a tweet in my Twitter stream that caught my attention today:</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>@so-and-so Love some feedback on my blog:) http://unshortenedspammylink/wordpress:) Leave Comments!!!!</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I know that Twitter is a service we can all use as we wish, but this tweet violated so many of my own private rules I had to look further.  Looking at this person&#8217;s profile there was sadly (and predictably) a long list of the same requests to other &#8220;so and so&#8217;s&#8221;.  The proximity of the smiley face to the link broke the link itself, so I never got to see what was so great that everyone should want to go and leave comments on this person&#8217;s blog.  The person has been tweeting since June of 2009 and despite this long list of tweets the other interactions he/she has had seem to be genuine and quality interactions, at least as far as I looked back. </p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Rather that dissect what is wrong (if anything) with what this person is doing I would like to pose a question.  Assuming you truly believe that &#8220;this person just doesn&#8217;t know any better&#8221;, is it appropriate to leave a gentle DM telling her that what he/she is doing might be a bit spammy?  I&#8217;m not going to try to taint anyone&#8217;s opinion one way or the other by giving mine, but on other occasions I have been tempted to do just that, even if I didn&#8217;t know the person.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">So what do you think?  Is it appropriate to nicely tell someone about something like this, as a friendly gesture, if you have never had interactions with them? Or do you simply unfollow and move on?</p>
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