My Top Ten Follow Strategies
I was trying to think of a catchy title for this post, but when it really gets right down to it, I am simply laying out my follow strategies for everyone to see. People have asked me what they are, so I am coming clean. These are not necessarily the strategies everyone else should use, but they are mine and I will explain why I use them.
I have mentioned many times that my main goal in my use of social media is the promotion of the Kids Are Heroes concept and its web site. On a daily basis, the more people that discover it, the more people get behind it, the better chance we have of becoming a global organization one day. And I humbly believe this strategy is working, as I hope to be making a major announcement real soon.
Some people are intimidated by big numbers. They won’t follow people once they have crossed a certain threshold. I can understand that sentiment to a point. Many celebrities do not follow back very many people. This isn’t a conversation, so I am not interested. I really love it when someone wants to put on airs that they are a celebrity by using this practice. But if you think that people will no longer connect once they surpass a certain number think again. Each week I meet new people. The occurrences of me speaking to them on the phone are becoming more frequent. Some are “newbies” and some I have been conversing with for a long time. I see and pay attention to every reply I get. I respond to almost all of them. The only replies I do not respond to are ones that do not warrant them or ones that have “worn out their welcome” in terms of the nature of the request.
Follow other people. Simply stated, this is the most effective way to get people to find out about us. Many are sent an email that notifies them of the new follow, and that’s when they check us out. If they like what they see, they follow back. So I bet you are saying, “Great! I’ll just use a follow program to automate this and sit back and watch my followers grow!” I have never used, nor will I ever use an auto-follow program. First off, some of them are nefarious to say the least. Secondly, some of them take over your twitter stream advertising themselves. Once I see this, I instantly unfollow that person as do other people. Even if you gain followers this way, they are empty, non-qualified followers that probably won’t listen to you and will do you more harm than good.
So, what makes me follow one person and not follow another? Here’s my list:
1) Fill out your profile. I can’t stress how important this is. If you do not do this it appears like you don’t care or are hiding something. The more information you put in your profile, the more people can use to break the ice with you. Use a good picture that can be enlarged so we can see the real you. I discourage the use of an animated gif file, or something else that is designed to attract my attention, like putting your picture upside down. I don’t follow people who do this. If you are promoting a business with your Twitter ID that’s okay, but at least use a full name as part of the profile so we know what to call you.
2) Engage with others. If I see an entire page where all you do is either send out a quote or repeat a news story, then I’m going to assume you don’t want to talk to people. I want to see those ‘@’ signs.
3) Don’t spam. This should go without saying, but unfortunately there are many spammers on Twitter. Most people block them. Some people however just don’t know any better. They do believe in their product and want to tell the world about it. Get to know us first, then we will ask you about what you do.
4) Be very careful about asking for retweets. I get asked to retweet stuff all the time. People think that just because my numbers are larger than theirs it will really further their cause if I tweet about it. They don’t understand how many requests I get and how my twitterstream would be nothing more than a compilation of other people’s tweets if I gave in. If in the tweet you say (Pls RT) that’s one thing, but sending me a direct message asking to tweet about something is totally different. Depending on if and how well we have connected it can cause an unfollow, even a block.
5) Be active. My typical rule of thumb is that if a person hasn’t tweeted in more than three days I will not follow them. That may sound drastic, but the more often people are on Twitter the better chance I have of connecting with them.
6) Connect with people any way you can. I often follow people after a retweet or an @reply. Why does this work? Because when people I am not familiar with do one or the other I look them up. They are usually following me. I see their profile and stream, etc. and they look like a good person to connect with. The fact is I simply missed them when they followed me.
7) Comment on my blog. This is similar to #6. Your twitter stream might have indicated to me that you do not connect with people, but you have just proven that you do.
8) Don’t protect your tweets. I used to think that people who protect their tweets had a tendency to be more genuine. I have not found that to be true, (or false for that matter). They have their reasons for doing so, which whatever they are I respect, but I typically won’t follow them because I can’t see what they tweet about and how they interact with people. I usually just move on. And if you think you can connect with others that are not following you by sending them an @reply, think again. I had this question posed to me as a comment on one of my blog posts. I showed how the person you send the tweet to will not see it if they are not following you.
9) Don’t use profanity. No matter how long I have followed you, or how we have connected, I will unfollow anyone who uses profanity. This has always been my stance. I believe it’s not professional and I am also trying to protect my 11-year-old nosy daughter who is always in my office.
10) Don’t be negative. Recently I had a customer service issue with a printing company. I think good customer service is one of the key ingredients to being a respected company and when it goes bad it for some reason sets me off. I couldn’t control myself, I had to tweet about it. However, the tweets were not in vain as the company saw them, sent them to the right person, and the situation was rectified and I will now continue to use them. But I still don’t recommend ranting on Twitter. It’s the same as being at a party. People don’t gravitate toward others who are always spouting negativity.
So how do I find people to follow? I use wefollow.com to find categories (parenting, education, philanthropy, etc.) I am interested in which people have aligned themselves to. (NOTE: Use this service with caution. I just saw a tweet that warned me about a nasty practice that they are using that can be avoided.) I pick out followers I really connect with and see who they follow. If you respect them that means they have done due diligence and are concerned about who they follow, so it’s almost as if they have done the work for you. I use a great tool called TweepSearch to search the profiles of people for keywords. And as I mentioned I follow people who connect with me in some meaningful way.
Now keep in mind that this is hard work. It can sometimes be tedious going through profile after profile and sifting through the bad ones. But the more it pays off the more I do it.
So that’s my story and I’m sticking to it. Let us know what strategies you use.






Molly Williams said,
I agree whole heartedly with all of this and its the kind of counsel that I routinely give my clients. I might add a couple additional points and I would love to hear your feedback on them if you agree or not.
1. Provide value. This is perhaps the most important lesson that I give my clients (friends and family too). You have to provide your community with valuable information. Give them a reason to follow you and tell others about you. Value is different for different audiences but it’s also critical to building a community.
2. Don’t just talk about yourself, your company, your brand. Support the community that you’re trying to foster by talking about the issues, events, and news that your followers and supporters are talking about. If you want their support, show them that you support them.
3. Be a human being. Even if you are Tweeting on behalf of your company – as I do – you need to express emotion, talk about challenges and struggles you may have, ask for advice, and so on. Show your community that there is a real person under the news feed.
Twitter: @DigitalArtisansGabe said,
Hi Molly,
1) Absolutely if they can give it. I would say do not force this though. A photographer can give out tips that might help novices which is great. Don’t be coy with your knowledge. I have always shared as much as I can and recommend that to others. But when I see people searching the web for articles and retweeting them thinking that’s adding value it doesn’t really do that if that’s all they do.
2) That ties in nicely with my number 2 – don’t spam. Sometimes people do it without knowing it. Look at someone’s profile and ask them a question about something that interests you. Nothing is more flattering than someone asking you a pointed question about something you are involved with.
3) Absolutely. That’s why I recommend adding a name even if you are a business. We connect with the person first, then find out about what the business does later.
Thanks for adding the great points to this blog post. You have also proven a point I made earlier. I just discovered I was not following you for whatever reason. I just checked out your profile, and now I am following you. I would like to see ‘Molly Williams’ instead of ‘Craft Interactive’ on your profile though. Are you game for that? :) -Gabe
Molly Williams said,
Good suggestion. My partner and I both tweet for the company so we’re going to use the bio section to explain that since there’s more room. Thanks, Gabe.
Twitter: @DigitalArtisansGabe said,
You are welcome. Have you thought of this one? Both of you having separate Twitter identities but still promoting your company? Wonder which strategy you think would be more effective and why. :)
Michelle (What's Cooking) said,
Your article is very timely for me! I have been on twitter for several months and recently realized that while I am networked with lots of people who are interesting to me, I am not networking with as many people who could benefit from my experience.
I teach cooking classes to children and focus on sustainability and using food/cooking as a means to help the less fortunate. I offer lots of tips on how to help families cook with their children, spend quality time together, and do things that they can all be proud of. I have been enjoying your tweets and website recently and am so happy that I found you. It always makes me so happy to see other organizations doing so much to engage children in improving the world.
I just started looking at my twitter friends who have similar philosophies as I do and am looking at the people who they follow – and who follows them. I am finding some amazing people that way!
I’m going to check out the links you recommended too. Thanks for the tips!
Twitter: @whatscookingGabe said,
Hi Michelle,
Thanks so much for the kind words and I am excited that this post has helped you in some way.
Justine said,
Hi Gabe
Fantastic timing! You’ve highlighted many relevant points, most of which I agree with, and addressing a few points I’ve been pondering lately.
I admit, I’m always a bit deterred by the high follower numbers of people who add me, and in relation to what they are tweeting about may decline to follow back.
I like to connect with people who may share the same interests, or those who I simply find particularly fascinating/unique/quirky, inspiring or provide good information- they cover a fairly wide range,(though I find it a huge task to be able to connect if I follow high numbers of people) That said, I’m passionate about sharing good information with others…so this is where I question my method…how do I know that I won’t impact someone even though they may not fit my criteria?
Thanks for the though provoking post, the only one I would disagree with would be unfollowing after three days! I highly encourage technology free days or even weeks! (good for your health!)Three months I would definatley consider though LOL
In Kindness Always!
Twitter: @fitSpiritGabe said,
Hi Justine,
To be clear I never said I unfollow those who haven’t tweeted in three days, I said that I do not follow people who haven’t tweeted in three days. There’s a difference. I also respect those that take some time off from time to time for whatever reason.
A lot of people say they don’t like large numbers because they cannot connect with all of them. My point is that you can connect with more people than you do now. When I followed 100 people I didn’t connect with all of them all the time. When it gets to be too much then I might change the strategy.
Thanks for your comment. :)
Jenny Madison said,
Fabulous advice for those new & old to social media alike. You make a great point about profanity. Many feel that if you are using Twitter for personal purposes only this doesn’t matter, however consider your followers. If you wouldn’t say in a room full of children you may want to think of another way to express yourself. I can not say I have never used profanity on Twitter, however it is something I try to mindful of and try very hard to avoid.
Gabe said,
Thanks Jenny,
I liken it to a huge party where everyone can hear you. If you get RT’ed then everyone at the party next door can hear you too. I try to only speak the words I would be comfortable speaking if I were standing on a platform at a party with a microphone.
Paul Krellwitz said,
Great tips, Gabe. Practical applicable actions that we can all apply to improve the conversation on Twitter. Your point of “don’t be negative” is well taken. Being critical, while being constructive, is useful. Venting and ranting, while they sometimes get the attention required, are far less helpful.
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